Bookmark was labelled as such because he liked books, I like books – it was the first thing we started chatting about. He had a daughter as well so had some idea what kids are all about, we were chatting loads but he worked in a shop so had weird shifts which didn’t seem to work around when I was free so we spent several weeks just talking and texting. In the end I just didn’t bother – why should it be so difficult to organize a day, it had nothing to do with him working in a shop on a crap salary which I absolutely did not look up online